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Life's Lessons.

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We find life's lessons in the strangest places. Movies teach us a lot about the happenings of life. But one would not be able to see unless we see beyond what we feel we want to see. Let me recount my personal experience with a movie I have watched countless times just to have a good laugh. Most of us may be quite familiar with Tyler Perry's “MADEA" movies and plays. I really love one of  the plays entitled, “Madea Gets A Job". A real funny movie that is, and I really love watching it for a good laugh. A few weeks ago, I watched it again as usual but then i caught on something valuable. One of the old ladies in the nursing home where Madea worked said something that really caught my attention for the first time with renewed interest, though I have heard it several times. She was recounting how she lived her life and was puzzled on how frail she was. “How did I get here? When did I get here? How did I grow frail and weak? It seems to me as though it was just yesterda...
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Self - Doubt - (Lack of self confidence).

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  "I don't think i can do this. There are too many people in this sector. I'll fail if I venture into this. I don't even have the money to fund myself. I know no one. Even Keith with all his money and  connectons failed." I have just one question for you. Are you Keith? You're not? Good. So now....👇👇👇 You need to always know who you are. Do you now have an answer? Good. Why then do you compare yourself to Keith and other people?  COMPARISON is one of the killer diseases that kills our CONFIDENCE  and makes us greatly doubt  ourselves and our abilities. You are unique because you are you. We most times sit on our own success by doubting ourselves because the ones whom we feel are better  than us failed miserably. BUT, they at least tried. What about you? Now hear this. Those who have made the big brand names we hear to day did not have it easy or given  to them on a golden platter. You think Bill Gates had it the first time. NO. Not even the second t...
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Step of Self - Companionship.

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"Sometimes i just wish it will all be over. I'm tired of being alone. why can't i make friends like everyone  else? Is something wrong with me? Why is it that no one ever texts or calls me?  Why do feel so  insecure? I feel so confused. Why do i feel so lost? Was it because of what happened in...?  Hmm!!!!!" Many of us have been running these thoughts through our minds every second, every minute and every day we find ourselves alone. Life seems so unfair to us. We take up our phones only to realize we have  no one to call and even if we do, we do not know what to say to them. We shed tears in our lonely  cupboards just because we seem to have no one to talk to or even sit quietly with. In our sober time,  we  try to figure out what actually causes this loneliness we keep feeling but nothing comes out. What do we do now? A situation like this can be solved with...
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