Step of Self - Companionship.

"Sometimes i just wish it will all be over. I'm tired of being alone. why can't i make friends like everyone

 else? Is something wrong with me? Why is it that no one ever texts or calls me?  Why do feel so

 insecure? I feel so confused. Why do i feel so lost? Was it because of what happened in...?  Hmm!!!!!"


Many of us have been running these thoughts through our minds every second, every minute and every

day we find ourselves alone. Life seems so unfair to us. We take up our phones only to realize we have 

no one to call and even if we do, we do not know what to say to them.


We shed tears in our lonely cupboards just because we seem to have no one to talk to or even sit quietly

with. In our sober time, we try to figure out what actually causes this loneliness we keep feeling but

nothing comes out.

What do we do now?


A situation like this can be solved with little steps. But the best one can do is to do what we love doing 

best. 


Just hang in there.

Read a book.

Watch some movies.

STOP  looking down on yourself.

Learn from the past but don't live in it.

Take your self out.

Don't have money to go out? Take a long walk.

REFRESH your mind.

It hurts so much. So, LET GO OFF THAT HURT.

Don't have friends? Bond with family.

Don't have family? Bond with your very SELF.

Above all,

LOVE YOURSELF 

This is not gonna be easy. It ain't gonna be smooth. But...but, it is step towards being happy.

BE YOUR OWN COMPANION.

Take a step towards self-companionship. 

Just one little step at a time.

You will get there.

Emily.

Comments

  1. Unknown1 August 2020 at 14:17

    Waaaoo, this is very inspiring. Thank you

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  2. Youu1 August 2020 at 17:52

    Wow this is beautiful dear, keep it up 👍🏾

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  3. Unknown2 August 2020 at 06:23

    Nice one

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  4. Health Is Wealth2 August 2020 at 10:50

    Awwww that's a good work done. Keep posting more and keep the good work up

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  5. Unknown2 August 2020 at 15:03

    Splendid. Keep it up

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  6. Unknown2 August 2020 at 15:51

    Nice1....

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  7. Onyameba R. Atta-Kesson3 August 2020 at 10:23

    Lovely and inspiring!👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

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  8. Unknown4 August 2020 at 11:45

    Well written!! Well done Emily!!

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  9. Pascal4 August 2020 at 11:47

    Well done Emily!!

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  10. Anonymous4 August 2020 at 12:19

    You have done a great job my dear sister keep it up,we need more

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  11. stepsmegh4 August 2020 at 14:22

    Thank you all

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  12. Hannah4 August 2020 at 14:49

    Well done

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  13. Makay4 August 2020 at 14:56

    Wowww...... Very inspiring.
    Great job sis👍

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  14. Makay4 August 2020 at 14:57

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  15. Mzdee 4 August 2020 at 15:26

    Great piece dear... keep it going

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  16. Unknown4 August 2020 at 16:30

    Nicely done

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  17. Tinawrites4 August 2020 at 21:12

    Wooww... beautiful write up. Keep it up Emily

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  18. stepsmegh5 August 2020 at 01:08

    Thank you all.����

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  19. Unknown5 August 2020 at 01:38

    Nice one. Well done girl

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  20. Eli Newmann5 August 2020 at 01:44

    Awesome piece dear.
    Kindly look at this; there's a saying that, no one is an island so matter what be the case one will definately have someone he /she can gel with on the basis of interest and class. If you can't keep friendship, it will be prudent that you examine yourself and goals you're driving at in life and perhaps your friends can't go tangent with you so no need to cry head off for losing them. Identify a purposive companions and the good Book, bible says how can two walk together If they do not have anything in common.

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    1. Emily Jewel5 August 2020 at 02:38

      Thanks for reading and sharing your thoughts. It is much appreciated.

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  21. Unknown5 August 2020 at 02:28

    Beautiful and educative

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  22. Unknown5 August 2020 at 05:19

    Self companionship, very important in being able to positively gel n bond with others. beautiful write up Emily.

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  23. Emily Jewel5 August 2020 at 06:26

    Thank you all.

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  24. Unknown5 August 2020 at 11:22

    Good word. Keep it up

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  25. Unknown5 August 2020 at 12:49

    Very inspiring. Good one and keep it up

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  26. Unknown5 August 2020 at 12:54

    Wow... Amazing .. dear keep it up and May God take you higher and higher

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  27. Anonymous5 August 2020 at 13:04

    Eeiiisshh slay mama ����
    Great content

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  28. Unknown5 August 2020 at 13:42

    Welldone. This is great

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  29. Bolowanzy5 August 2020 at 17:53

    Great piece of work, keep it up

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  30. Unknown8 August 2020 at 05:16

    Very inspiring dear

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